why we determined to homeschool

sharing extra about how lengthy we intend to homeschool, and why the heck we’re doing it with just a bit over a month left of the college yr. 

Hello mates!

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For at present’s put up, I needed to share a little bit bit extra about our homeschool journey and what’s happening. I’ve alluded to the truth that we’ve had a tough time the previous few months and it’s been troublesome to navigate how and what to share. I’ve at all times been open with you guys on the subject of my life, however the aim of the weblog has at all times been to share MY expertise; not my youngsters’s. It’s a difficult line to stroll, particularly after they’re an enormous a part of my life and I really feel like so a lot of you’re part of our household. On the identical, I by no means need them to really feel like their privateness has been invaded by what I share right here, so I’ve at all times tried to take a fragile strategy to my content material, particularly as they’ve gotten older.

The nutshell model is that this: we ended up transferring Liv to a different personal faculty in January. We had been all scuffling with the mind-boggling quantity of homework, exams, and assignments. It was particularly exhausting along with her competitors dance schedule. We switched studios and minimize her hours in half, and she or he was nonetheless up till at the very least midnight each night time (for the previous 2+ years) attempting to complete every little thing for college. I’m an enormous believer in exhausting work and I believe tutorial rigor has its place, but it surely was an excessive amount of for everybody. So, she switched and has been thriving.

When she switched colleges, it was the primary time P hasn’t had her massive sis at college, which was difficult for her. The Pilot additionally retired, which was an enormous transition, and she or he began to have extra frequent stomachaches. (Her abdomen has bothered her on and off for years, which has at all times anxious me since she had extreme reflux as a child and was on Prilosec and Zantac, which has been recalled for terrifying causes.) She noticed a number of medical doctors, had an ultrasound, her abdomen was deemed “wholesome,” and their solely suggestion was to place her on a PPI once more. She was additionally doing CBT weekly, and typically twice every week. Her abdomen ache and anxiousness obtained so unhealthy that she missed many days of college, and we had been right here attempting to maintain up with the insane quantity of homework, classwork, and exams.

The Pilot was residence for retirement and was instructing her the content material, ensuring she accomplished the large packets of classwork, and taking her to highschool for exams. He had return to business airline coaching and I couldn’t fathom solo parenting, working, and attempting to maintain up with the entire faculty work she was lacking, so I requested her to both select to return to highschool or we might pull her out, and she or he stated, “Please homeschool me.”

I by no means meant to be a instructor, however I’ll do something for our infants and if it’s what P wants proper now, I’m going to do it.

(We love Nicole the Math Woman! An incredible rec from Brittany.)

Additionally value mentioning right here that I made a decision to do a Meals Sentivity Take a look at (and another useful labs) and obtained to the foundation reason behind some intestine points, and her gluten sensitivity was extreme. No surprise her abdomen was hurting :/ Since she began the protocols and eliminated gluten, her abdomen ache has vastly diminished.

Our plan now:

– She’s on the waitlist for Liv’s new faculty however realistically gained’t be capable to get in till fifth grade

– We’ll homeschool till then and if she decides to return, that’s nice, and if she doesn’t need to, that’s okay, too.

The humorous factor is that I was actually cautious of homeschooling. Pre-kids thought to myself, “How on earth can a guardian anticipate to show their youngsters extra successfully than a instructor?”

Through the ladies’ time in class, we’ve had some extraordinary lecturers who’re every little thing lecturers needs to be. They love youngsters, love what they’re instructing, they’re above and past. However on the identical time, some lecturers are…not good. They are saying weird issues in school, disgrace youngsters in entrance of their friends, and this occurs in a personal faculty atmosphere ALL the time, when you’re paying in your child to be taught by instructors who don’t appear to love youngsters in any respect. A overwhelming majority of the time, we spent the three to 4 hour block every night time instructing anyway, as a result of they weren’t taught the content material throughout their courses.

Rising up, I additionally thought that homeschooled youngsters had been in all probability awkward as a result of they don’t have as a lot social interplay. The fact is that the entire homeschooled youngsters I’ve met are sort, articulate, pleasant, and extremely sensible.

Although I’ve seen mates homeschool and sort of daydreamed about how how enjoyable it might be, I didn’t contemplate it a chance as a result of I earn a living from home, juggling consumer calls, content material creation, podcast interviews, Zooms, IHP work, and so forth. I didn’t really feel like I might add one other issues to my plate, however I didn’t even assume twice about it after we obtained thus far. I’ve shuffled my schedule round lots so that almost all of my content material creation is finished over the weekend, and the wonder about homeschool is that it solely takes round two hours every day at this age.

This put up is already tremendous lengthy, so I’ll share one other put up quickly with the curriculum we’re utilizing and the way we construction our days.

Thanks in your kindness and being so wonderful over the previous few months. It’s been a tough yr in some ways (this is only one of them) and being right here with you all every day is a serious vivid spot. We completed our first full week of homeschool and I’m feeling fairly excited and hopeful about it! I’m additionally grateful that we get to spend some further time collectively and are trying into the entire cool homeschool actions that Tucson gives!

xoxo

Gina